A great analogy to demonstrate this:
Think of a person who is very comfortable with themselves. They are happy with who they are. They are secure with how they are. They may not have financial security, but they are not stressed over life. They have certainty. Life seems to flow for them. They would be called evolved, not much is missing in their life. They work from a place of abundance, they live in a place of abundance.
Life is not necessary easy for them, they have the same life challenges as everyone, they just have a positive outlook and find solutions with ease. You do not hear them bitching. They have a different perception of life.
We all know someone like this.
Now think of a person we would call clingy or needy. With this person there always seems to be drama. They would be called insecure. With this person there is never enough. Never enough. Always wanting more. Wanting more Love more attention, more time, more compliments, more sex.
This person life is hard, always a drama. They live in a place of scarcity.
We all know someone like this.
We have all experienced both these behaviors within ourselves, but some people spend more time in one side than the other.
Now imagine one day they meet in a bar, and both having had a few drinks, so they are on a high. Chemistry starts and one thing leads to another. A relationship begins. And for a while whilst the lust is still active the relationship goes well.
However once the lust fades there true natures starts to come through. The dynamics of the relationship becomes clear.
The clingy / needy person constantly wants more attention, there is never enough kisses, never enough love, never enough compliments, never enough time. Always wanting more.
Now by this person always wanting and demanding more attention, more love, does this create more attention or less? Does it create more love or Less? More compliments or less? More sex or less? More time or less?
So what you are saying is, that this person by constantly wanting more attention, more love they are actually getting less. So everything they want more of they are actually getting less. Everything they actually want they are not getting.
How could we describe or label this relationship?
Some might say Marriage. Only joking!
It might be described as doomed or destructive. Or very dysfunction!
So the things that this clingy person wants, based on their behavior, is giving them what they want the least. And if we were to label this relationship we would call it dysfunction.
I would call this relationship repulsive. Now, I do not mean repulsive, like “you are disgusting get any from me”. I mean repulsive from a quantum process or energetic process. The process of attraction and repulsion.
If you have two magnets of the same polarity, and you push them together, what happens? They repel. It is observable in physics. It is an energetic repulsion.
So this relationship is repulsive, repelling one person from the other.
This needy person who never has enough, always wanting more is creating a repellant towards the other person.
So my next question is: “What is your relationship with money?”
Are you always saying there is never enough? Are you always wanting more? Are you hanging onto what you have like you are never going to get more?
What is money? Money is energy – and energy flows.
This belief you have directly effects your day trading. This is because its you sub-conscious mind that directs your behavior. Most of the time this occurs without you being consciously aware of it.
An example of this: I was at an Anthony Robbins seminar, “Date with Destiny”, and in this seminar Tony Robbins did a NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) technique called an embedded command.
The embedded command was that the next morning before the seminar at 8:07am you were going to have a break through.
Now for about 30 minutes Tony Robbins went on about this break though at 8:07am. Clocks were flashed up on the screen showing 8:07am and Tony told this story.
Now the next morning I woke up before my alarm (which is very uncommon for me) and I decided to get up and have a shower, shave etc. Whilst I was drying myself I heard my alarm going off, which had been set for 8:00am. When I got into my room and picked up the clock it was precisely 8:07am.
Now my sub-conscious woke me, had me shower for exactly the right time for me to hear the alarm at 8:07am.
My break through from this was realizing how much our sub-conscious controls our behavior and our conscious mind is unaware of this.
The rules our sub-conscious follows to control our behavior is our beliefs!
So when day trading, our behavior is influenced by our beliefs. Our sub-conscious can control when you trade or when you do not trade, whether you follow your trading plan or not.
Therefore it is vital to know what your beliefs are and if they are not serving you how to change them.
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